Tiryaford Dictionary ....

This is short story behind what is "Tiryaford dictionary..." Which i am dedicating to all the MB members.. We all schoolmates met after a long break near about 16-17 years. Really thankful to the social network which is the only way for us to find and met each other. It is not easy to be connected with your dear ones very easily, that's why appreciate the social network though it is discussed with negative approach mostly. Various characters are making a group which is forever because all of them accepts each character as it is.
so today i am describing one of the character.

खूप वर्षांनी ठरवून एकत्र जमलेले मित्र आणि मैत्रिणीं शाळेच्या आठवणी गुंफत होते. सुंदर अशी सुय्रास्तः ची वेळ, आकाशात पसरलेला तो मंद सुर्यकिरणाचा भगवा रंग … आणि त्यात रंगलेली गप्पांची मैफिल … साथ द्यायला होताच की फक्कड चहा, कॉफी आणि बंडूचे special वड़े. 
मग सुरुवात झाली एकमेकांच्या आयुष्यात डोकावण्याची … सुरुवात केली प्रणालीने… अजून हि तशीच शाळेतला पहिला क्रमांक इथेहि सोडला नाही आणि शेवट आमच्या डॉक्टर साहेबांनी (राहुल) कारण पूर्ण वर्ग सांभाळण्याची (monitor) जबाबदारी इथे त्यांनीही पूर्ण केली. मग ह्या परिचय सत्रानंतर जागा घेतली ती शाळेत असताना झालेल्या मौज मस्तीच्या आठवणींनी. ती जागा दिली परदेशात असणारया अंजलीने …म्हणाली किती रे छान होते ते दिवस… पुन्हा कधीहि न परतणारे.   सगळे मग्न झाले होते गप्पा मारण्यात … अचानक! एक विचारू का? असा प्रस्ताव आला. सगळ्यांनी आवाजाच्या दिशेने बघितले आणि संजुक्ता म्हणाली बोला.. "टिरी मास्टर"  नाही जरी म्हणालो तरी विचारणारच ना! विचारा नाहीतर पोट दुखणार उगीच … हंम्म करा सुरु. प्रश्न असा आहे कि…विचारू का नक्की? सगळे एका सुरात ओरडले, अरे …. राहू दे नको विचारू . हास्याचा कल्लोळ थांबवत सचिन म्हणाला बरं ऐकूनच घ्या आता… अहंम अहंम
शेणफडू ला इंग्रजीत काय म्हणतात? सांगा. 
हे ऐकता क्षणी लगेच निखिल म्हणाला मी देतो उत्तर पण आधी तू माझ्या प्रश्नाचे उत्तर दे. होकारार्थी मान हलवत सचिन म्हणाला 'तू भी क्या याद रखेगा' विचार बिनधास्त. ऐक मग … अस म्हणत निखिलने विचारले "माहेर आणि सासर ला इंग्लिश मध्ये काय म्हणतात?" सांग आता. एका क्षणाचीसुद्धा वाट न बघता सगळ्यांनी घेरले पोलिसाला ( सचिनला). काय झाले रे शेणफडू … उत्तर दे. लगेचच रितेश त्याची खोटी बाजू घेत म्हणाला अरे! काय चालु रे भो थांबा… जरा वेळ द्या त्याला.  हो ना… काय हे ... टिरी मास्टरला शोधू तर द्या .... टिर्या! ….निरज साथ देत म्हणाला. 
ओह... असय होय कुठे शोधायच्या असतात त्या धनश्रीने म्हणाली. मग त्याला पुढे एकही शब्द बोलण्याची संधी मिळाली नाही. कारण सुरुवात झाली होती Dictionary च्या शोधाची. 
अग ! त्याची एक special dictionary आहे ग …ती झाम्बल्तोय तो. त्यातून सांगणार काय म्हणतात इंग्लिश मध्ये ते. कोणती ती ? सगळ्यांचा एकाच आवाजात प्रश्न आला.
टिरी मास्टर आहे ना तो…मग! त्याची Dictionary पण special त्याच्या सारखी…. Tiryaford Dictionary निशाने उत्तर दिले आणि हळूच विचारले राग आला का रे पोलिस?
हसू आवारत आमचा Tiryaford म्हणाला... बघा किती हसवले मी सगळ्यांना.. Born talented आहे मी. Oxford  तर Oxford. 
Oxford नाही हो Tiryaford …. Tiryaford …. अमिताने निर्णायक शिक्कामोर्तब केला.
असा हा आमचा Tiryaford …आणि त्याची Tiryaford Dictionary.

Lovely Relation that Grows Generations

One should have a boy... as he is the seed of next generation of ones family and provide the existence to the ancestry (Vansh). But anyone have realized that a girl can also provide existence to the ancestry... though everything is changed in her life .. started from her well known origin name and many more.
One day in some ceremony all the relatives gathered together ... everyone is busy in knowing about whats going on in others life... Suddenly one uncle came to me and asked me u are granddaughter of ......? (had taken name of my mom's father). With agreeable smile on my face ..replied to him 'Yes' .

Suddenly i feel... wow that's great though my mothers surname is different and mine too... then also we are helpful to recognize the 'Person' which belongs to the other ancestry.
Girls are growing generations but not acclaimed for the same.
How lovely relation it is....between the feminine that breeds generations and giving existence too various origins. My daughter.....Myself......My Mother .... Grandmother... and so..on on both the side. We all can be recognized for various generations as well as for various ancestry.

I Wont Fear Mumma

The start of Shri Ganesh Festival of year 2015.... and its in Pune... so lovely environment. The city is full of various activities. People are busy in making decoration with magnificent ideas for Bappa's warm Welcome, Dhol Tasha pathak getting ready to show their intellect. All Mithaiwale's are trying to bring variation in flavors for Bappa's and most of peoples favorite Modak.
The day arrived when Bappa comes to home. We share Bappa's blessing for one and half day in our home. My 4 years old daughter enjoyed it with the Special "Ukadiche Modak". During these days she visits everyone's house in our society to do the prayer... and hidden purpose to get the 'Prasad' that she receives after finishing the prayer.
For these 10 days of Ganpati Festival... a routine was set by her own. After coming back from the ground activity while stepping up she tells everyone that don't forget to call me for "Ganesh Aarti". 
One day her friend given a call for the prayer and as usual she wants to go down to attend it. So was ready to go and showed me see mumma how am I looking…? As usual special admiring comment came from a mother inside me …”Oh! Lovely… You are looking like a Barbie Doll, my princess”
With a little smugness and the cute smile on her face she told me….acha aai i am going at di's home. At that time I was in hurry to prepare the dinner. So opened the door for her and told her that I am watching you … you go down. With an agreed expression she started to step down and said Bye Mumma.

Suddenly while stepping down my small dare devil returned and came back to home.No matter how free-spirited and even intrepid she is.....with a fear of the lucky (doggie) sited at the steps but with firm voice she asked me mamma... Why you are not coming for the aarti today? I Know you are afraid of lucky na.. 
I won’t fear….. So don’t worry about him. He will do nothing to you …come we will go down.
She tried to perfectly convince me that I am the only person who is frightened of lucky and she is the only brave girl who can save me from him. And I also have let her to be in the same illusion… which gives both of us bliss. And finally I went with her to do the Bappa’s Aarti.

Relation should be friendly…..

Many times we heard someone is suggesting that just be a friend of your kid… spouse…. etc…

why….?

I think whenever we are talking with friends or spending time with friends... we are in a role of "myself" … with a specific identity … so we enjoy thoroughly each and every moment as all of them were spend for or spend by the "me" … "myself". As we express everything unreservedly.

This was proved for me because of following incident.

After so many years near about 15, I met my school friends in our first planned reunion.  The rejoice was uncountable.  We enjoyed every second with playing bullying sharing etc. Though we all are from different field, different nature but then also we have adjusted each other and bang on the reunion…

A thought strikes in my mind that it's very strange that during school days we don't have a special group but then also when we have planned for the reunion. We were so excited  and also we have adjusted our own work to be there for reunion. Many topics were discussed starting with deciding the place to meet, what type of activities we will do, etc. 

So finally, Its a friend relation which made it possible to awake the ‘ME’ part and make it happen to adjust and accept everything. 

So I think when we make each relation friendly ………… then most of the problems get solved …as we can share everything without any fear in mind…. and accept the things about us freely without any hesitation.

Which makes a life easier to live...